I am a old Army veteran and sometimes I get more wrapped up in fighting the battle and not trying to get points. I would like to see a game where it is purely getting the territory and destroying the enemy command vehicles. A game that could take 3 or 4 hours even longer. One that allows a player to take a more defensive approach to dominating the map.
And I am sure it has been mentioned a million times, but Infantry that can dig in, ability to select which reinforcment zone my guys should come in from (help with that damn spawn camping people do), a line of sight option for a unit, ability to set Target Reference Points (TRPs) for artillery and a way to call in dismounted infantry so transport helos and m113s aren't wasted as much, plus some light infantry would be cool.
Sorry I just didn't want to read through everything, but wanted to state my opinion. I play alot of Arma2 and hope the admins here aren't as nit picky about everything here
I love this game, can't wait for the co-op feature to come out.